Alejandra Maria

How to Heal Anxious Attachment #womensdatingadvice #relationships #datingforwomen #datingadvice #anxiousattachment

What would you do? ##womensdatingadvice #relationships #storytime #datingstorytime

Dating a man who completes everyone is great, but dating a man who can disappoint. Everyone is even better. #feminineenergy #womensdatingadvice #relationships #datingforwomen #datingadvice

Non-negotiable emotional boundaries for long term relationships Which emotional boundary do you think is most important in a relationship? #feminineenergy #womensdatingadvice #relationships #avoidantattachment #datingadvice

When did you know your man loved you? Comment below ⬇️ #feminineenergy #womensdatingadvice #relationships #relationshipadvice #datingadvice

What does it mean when a man blocks you? #womensdatingadvice #relationships #datingforwomen #avoidantattachment #feminineenergy

Military rules for dating that actually work. #womensdatingadvice #relationships #datingforwomen #avoidantattachment #feminineenergy

Questions to Ask in Early Dating and What They Reveal - What’s your favorite character from a movie or TV show? Reveals self-concept, idealized traits, and who they identify with or aspire to be. - What makes you lose respect for someone? Reveals core values, hidden dealbreakers, moral boundaries, and what they may judge others for under stress. - What do you do when you feel overwhelmed? Reveals emotional regulation style, coping vs numbing, avoidance patterns, and capacity for repair. - What makes someone high-maintenance in your opinion? Reveals emotional capacity, tolerance for other people’s needs, and what they see as normal attachment versus a burden. #feminineenergy #womensdatingadvice #relationships #datingforwomen #datingadvice

Green Flags People Ignore in Early Dating ✅He respects your beliefs, even when he doesn’t share them If you explain why something matters to you and he responds with curiosity instead of making a mockery of it, that’s a green flag. ✅He knows himself He’s questioned what he was taught and formed his own values instead of running inherited programming. A great question to ask: “What’s something you were raised to believe that you don’t actually agree with now?” ✅Has experienced an ego death A loss, a failure, a breakup that changed him. He got better, not bitter. Men who’ve been humbled tend to be more flexible, less defensive, and more open to different perspectives. ✅ He respects your boundaries without resentment You say no and he doesn’t push, joke, or interrogate you. He just says, “Okay.” That’s how he’ll handle bigger boundaries later. Save this. #relationships #datingadvice #datingadviceforwomen #relationshipadvice #feminineenergy

This is the girl code and you can’t change my mind 🥰 #feminineenergy #girlhood #datingadvice #relationships

Just because it would’ve been different, doesn’t mean it would’ve been better. #healingjourney #womensdatingadvice #relationships #relationshipadvice #avoidantattachment

Not all avoidants regret leaving their relationship, but when they do, they will mourn it inside of the next one. #healingjourney #womensdatingadvice #relationships #datingforwomen #avoidantattachment

The best relationships that I have seen are when the man fears the woman. He doesn’t fear for his life, he fears disrespecting her and the consequence that comes with a life without her When a man fears losing you, he pays attention. Fear in a relationship is healthy, it prevents people from getting too comfortable This is how you instill that fear. #healingjourney #relationships #womensdatingadvice #datingforwomen #datingadvice

The ex you’re worried about isn’t the problem. In avoidant attachment dynamics, the “one that got away” is often a fantasy used to avoid emotional closeness. The other woman isn’t the problem. It’s the pattern of avoidance he refuses to face. #avoidantattachment #phantomex #theonethatgotaway #datingadvice #relationships

How do you know if a man is with you out of convenience or because he genuinely loves you? If you’ve noticed that he showed up differently for other women more effort, more consistency, more intention this video explains why. Most women don’t struggle because they’re asking for too much. They struggle because they’re dating men who see them as a tolerance, not a preference. Men don’t fall in love through potential the way women do. And when a man is with a woman he truly wants, you don’t have to negotiate effort, consistency, or basic consideration. Watch actions. Not words. And stop bending your standards early. That’s how you save years of your life. #womensdatingadvice #relationships #datingforwomen #datingadvice #avoidantattachment