BHSV

✌️ What doesnt kill you, will sit across from you in a court room

After 6 months of going back and fourth I was done. I wanted the rest of my things from the house. I asked for the spare set of keys for my car that were in the safe, but he refused he wasn't handing them over. I told him I wasn't leaving without them. And ill never heal from that day. The fear i felt when his eyes went completely black and he opened hand slapped me breaking my glasses. As I looked up he side stepped and kicked me straight into the roller door. He then took off in his car with our 11 month old daughter on his lap and called me and told me to pick her up from a few streets away and I better hurry up coz hes leaving her there. I told him im not leaving without my keys. He came back held the baby out the window and told me to take her. He did two laps around the block came back and rammed my car with our daighter inside it, unrestrained, she fell off the back seat to the floor. He never blinked an eye, he could hear his daughter his own flesh and blood crying and he showed no emotion or care. And to this day he still threatens to have my car stolen, And im expected to hand our child over to this man 😭

My ex would pop in and out of contact with us depending on whether him and his girlfriend were together or not together. Give or take he would be dad of the year for 1 to 2 weeks and then he would go ghost for 6 to 8 weeks. Everytime I raised any concerns I had in regards to our daughters safety and well being or my exs inconsistent contact his go to sayings would be 💫 Your being dramatic 💫 Did you sleep last night 💫 Your being manic 💫 You need help 💫 Im trying to co parent but your difficult 💫 It sounds like your assuming When they say be careful who you have kids with they ain't Fu&ken lying. Attempting to co parent with the person who betrayed you with lies, cheating and questioning your own reality is traumatising.

I let a mans trauma be the reason why he traumatised me. He had previously been in a relationship where the woman had a baby believed to be his and it wasnt. When I was pregnant with our daughter he would tell everyone that the baby wasn't his. He'd often tell me if the baby comes out and its not his he would kill me. I tried to reassure him, I offered to do prenatal DNA testing so i could just ease his mind and enjoy my pregnancy, but he didn't want to "waste" the money on that. He DNA tested our daughter at 3 days old, and 3 weeks later when the results came back he had to pull the car over on the side of the road to read the results, and this grown man cried. I thought the tears were from relief and joy, but I now know the tears were more what have I done. He was already at least 6 months into an affair I knew nothing about. When I look back on my photos of our delivery of our daughter, there is one photo of me looking at him smiling and hes just staring down at our daughter like nothing is there. They say if you don't heal old wounds you'll bleed over someone that didn't cut you. HE BLED ALL OVER US #hsv #fyp

Whilst with holding child support, down playing his income to child support, "quitting his job" and blocking contact with our daughter for 6 months my ex also Spent 90K + On a Christmas over seas trip Brought a 300K+ Car Went on 4 other additional holidays As his ex girlfriend i guess one day ill get over it but as the mother of his child i will never get over it

The night he didn't come home or answer his phone was the last time I ignored my gut feeling. I looked over to the cabinet and noticed he had left his ipad on charge. DATA DOWNLOADED It took months to build up the courage to piece together the last 3 years of my life. I was living with a complete stranger. The Lies The Cheating The Manipulation The Gaslighting Damn he had me believing the sky was red. #hsv #sayitloud #exposed #narcissist #liar

As he was getting ready to go over east to pick up a car, I sat and cried on our bed 7 months pregnant. He asked what was wrong. I asked him, who are you taking with you? He laughed started to cuddle me and said, babe, I love you, im not going with anyone, ill only be a couple of days and then back with my family. I looked to the ground and he said, do you know the difference between a need and a want? I shrugged my shoulders as I wiped tears from my face. He said, I dont need you, I dont need anyone, I want you that's why im here there's a difference. You cant keep putting on me things that have happened to you in the past, im not like them other guys. And.... he was right he wasn't like them other guys.... he was so much worse. See my gut instinct was right 9 months later I seen the photos of him and his affair partner in Sydney having a blast. #liar #hsv #gaslighting #manipulated #narcawareness

Even when its over... its not over. 2 years ago my partners affair was exposed. He turned aggressive quickly. Ill never forget standing on the stairs holding our 5 month old daughter and him saying " You should leave before someone gets hurt" 12 days before Christmas with no where to go. #sayitloud #abuse #hsv #ytb #postseparationabuse