natalie louise

Can’t even respond to a good morning text

How to win back your avoidant ex

The only time you should stay in touch

DO NOT PLAY GAMES!!! MAKING YOUR PARTNER JEALOUS IS PLAYING GAMES. My suggestion is to love your life and do the things you want and recharge. When you return, you will feel a shift …. You won’t be so obsessed with your avoidant partner instead feel an obsession of love for your own life!!

Make sense ??

Make sense ?

When they are busy and happy that is a good thing and a chance for you to focus on you a little bit more 🧡

It’s always a spiral of emotions. The trick Is to catch the crazy emotions before they spiral

Sorry I didn’t get to mention the other three reasons because the video hit the 10 minute limit 😩 If you want a video of me talking about the other three, let me know

If you understand the emotional dynamics of an anxious and avoidant relationship, then you can better understand your partner and support them. Of course, the best way to make an anxious and avoidant relationship work is to use communication even when you’re scared that rejection could result and creating boundaries that make you feel safe I always recommend to my clients to create a check-in with their partner on a monthly basis. This could look something like asking your partner hey what do you think about our relationship? Is there anything you would change? Is there anything that I can do to make you feel safer or happier in the relationship? My boyfriend and I used to do this every single month near the beginning of our relationship and now we do it maybe every quarter or so.

A breakup text from an avoidant. This is what the avoidant was feeling and why he wrote what he wrote

Lonely, urge to feel in control, seeking love but threatened by it. Etc. Hope this helps you!!

“Idk when I’ll be back “ *triggered* What to do when you start crying and freaking out

Ways that do NOT work when trying to win back your avoidant (this is true for people that are in a relationship with an avoidant and feel like they are disappearing and distancing or it is also relatable for people that are going through a break up with an avoiding and are trying to win the back !!!)

Does this help you ??? I hope it does